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Unapologetically YOU

Pleasure Revolution

Freedom is when you know who you truly are and attract healthy and functional relationships, and fulfilling expansive opportunities.

 Unapologetically YOU

Awaken Soul Confidence and Pleasure, regain flow and live a fulfilling life in alignment with your soul. 

The keys to unlocking the power  of Authenticity and Vulnerability 

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Where do I even start, Who AM I, How did I get here?  

My perfect imperfect self, who needs perfection in a messy yet beautiful world? Let's find beauty in the mess.

Great questions...I know you are trying to make sense of life, and the more you think about it, the more frightening it is coz you find yourself living the life you never planned and facing challenges that a strong person like you doesn't know how to handle are secretly afraid, and you are hurting.

You thought you had it all figured out, you know how life has to play out but here you are.

You tried forcing how things happen, forcing your expectations, your outcome but you ended up being hurt many times. YOU are tired of trying to control life. It's exhausting, I understand.

What if the universe has been whispering for a long time and you never listened. 

The only way to get your atte
ntion was to dismantle what you thought you were so that you can finally be Unapologetically YOU.

Are you willing to align and receive what is your divine birthright?



We all have a history, a baggage that informs our decisions until you empty it out and be conscious of what gets to inform you. There is no need to be ashamed of where you are at, it doesn't matter what happened...what matters is what  you do with  it.

The best clarity that you can ever have is that  things need  to change. 

That pain, emptiness, confusion or discomfort is your soul calling you forth to release the walls you built around your heart so that you can experience greater heights of love, and release the invisible shackles about who you should be and how you get to live your life. Be your true self and align  your personality with your soul, that's power 

Power is when you align your personality with your soul and live the life you are meant to live creating your soul's deepest desires.

 Being Unapologetically YOU.

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Strength is not the absence of vulnerability, strength it's being in touch with your vulnerability and working with it appropriately.

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Leadership is not a position or a certain role you hold in an organisation. Leadership must be embodied, it's who you are in the boardroom, in the bedroom or in the kitchen...It's who you are everywhere you show up. It's not what you say, it's your Presence that makes others feel safe to trust you and want to work with you(careers or business) or relate with you on a deeper intimate level, it's the energy you exude. 

How would you show up if you attract and hold the interest and attention of others with your presence?

 You thrive in life by not forcing your way but by activating the enchanter or enchantress within,  pairing it with the inner warrior and finding a balance between logic and emotion. Life asks you to BE human and embrace the evidence of life, your emotions. Emotional Stoicism doesn't prove your strength.

Listen we are living in an era of rapid change, many people are experiencing a sense of change anxiety...coz as humans we have been socialized and conditioned to look for security.


 My purpose is to help you shift your perception and release discordant programs, conditioning, belief systems and imprints that perceives uncertainty as a threat. If you are so caught up in resisting how things are now,  you will continue to live your life in fear and survival instincts, continuously repeating the same patterns.


If you view uncertainty as an opportunity to access endless opportunities and possibilities, you will live from D.E.C. Desire, Evolution, and Curiosity.


If you are reading this, then there is something that you know needs to change and I have got you.

Do you want to let your magnificence shine with no inhibitions?

I am not here to convince you. If you going to be Unapologetic I trust you to be decisive enough to hop on a call with me.
Decisiveness is a valuable characteristic in solving problems, you know you have a problem.
Let's have a conversation, book a call

"Unapologetically YOU" is for you if;
                         The keys to unlocking the power  of Authenticity and Vulnerability 

  • You feel stuck, unsatisfied, overwhelmed and a bit lost in your current circumstances and you don't know how to get a breakthrough

  • You are very self-conscious, you let insecurity, envy, doubt and fear interfere with your destined success

  • You are going through a life challenge that is frustrating and stressful but you don't know how to navigate it for you to thrive 

  • You know you are talented, and you have what it takes to thrive beyond where you at, but you do not have the confidence to make connections and impressions that are influential

  • You struggle to attract healthy and functional relationships and fulfilling and expansive opportunities in your life

  • You are stuck in passionate yet emotionally destructive and depleting relationship patterns

  • You are a nice person that often sacrifices what you want to make other people happy or to have peace

  • You find it hard to assert your desires and boundaries or to be assertive without overbearing

  • You often feel powerless in your relationships

  • You struggle to get what you need and desire 

  • You gave your body, energy, and time to men in relationships, only to be left empty, broken, and depleted.

  • You have great ideas but you find it hard to take action

   You are disconnected from your sensual

and sexual magnetic life force energy.

Do you think this man would have gotten the help he needed if he didn't allow himself to be vulnerable? 



What Will You Get;


  • Unapologetically YOU Mindset and Core Principles 

  • Desire Activation

  • Inner Child healing to awaken your unique signature wisdom frequency

  • Self-Mastery

  • Recover completely from high-functioning anxiety

  • Embrace the Power of Vulnerability and Authenticity, and process

        your emotions (you will no longer feel ashamed to let your guard

        down for fear of seeming weak.

  • Eliminate doubt and overthinking at its core

  • Embrace and find beauty in your imperfections

  • Be assertive (learn the difference between being assertive and overbearing

  • Learn to be compassionate with yourself and others

  • Awaken Soul confidence and Pleasure

  • Regain Flow

  • Release emotional, mental and physical pain

  • Release grief and find joy in the little things

  • Heal Shame in your body, and sexual energy and Integrate your masculine

         and feminine energy

  • Align your Mind with your heart and Body

  • Realign and attract the Ideal Soulmate

It's time to create Intimacy in a way that does not leave you broken

and use your sexual energy for manifestation.

......and more 


When we reclaim our sexual Integrity we come into wholeness

  This a 12 weeks one-on one transformational    Program using 5 little secrets ;

  • 90 minutes Induction Session

  • 12 Modules

  • 11 hourly transformational weekly sessions 

  • Join the Friday calls with Unapologetically You Community

  • Healing Mp3's to shift subconscious imprints and reset your Nervous system

  • Access to me via telegram and whatsapp 100% support

  • A 45minutes follow-up call after 3 months

   BONUS; Unapologetically YOU Community in telegram and Facebook.

She helped me also with discovering myself and I was able to leave my cheating partner.

I met Dr Motsemme from a colleague...I was really in a dark space by then going through a whole lot...I was really depressed from life in general from a cheating partner to a sick child to not accepting the loss of a loved one..when we talked telephonically I was a bit hesitant..ijooh Kante!

she did a reading about my late dad and it was so spot on..she helped me also with discovering myself and I was able to leave my cheating partner...right now am doing great..I face challenges without a relapse. I get to think of the life skills she taught me..I would like to thank her for playing such a big role in my life especially for someone like me who did not believe much on counselling...thank you mma Motsemme.

She helped me with discovering myself and I was able to leave my cheating partner.

This is a12 week's group transformational Program for women using 5 little secrets, we meet around the campfire(virtual) just like our ancestors did.

  • This is powerful because you work on issues that you didn't even know you had but are brought to light by the other members

  • You meet other enchantresses with the same objectives, the power of; when one or 2 are gathered is magical

  • This is not power over men, you heal and be whole in your energy, but embrace the yearning of your feminine to be with the empowered masculine using your soft power and hard power to hold space for your king and be open to receive.

  • Release the illusion of mentalized self-love of I don't need a man, we need each other in our healed version

  • Pleasure revolution- this is not about sex, it's the way of life-igniting your life force energy and using it to dissolve emotional wounds and imprints around receiving and living a joyful life

  • A woman who is not in touch with her sensuality, sexuality, eroticism and creativity will never fully express her Unapologetic self and cannot be powerful in her own right

  • Let me help you acknowledge your wholeness, this is the energy that says YES to life and align with your highest truth, consciousness and potential

  • Join us and experience heart orgasm, love-making starts in the heart


Delivery :

  • 90 minutes one-on-one Induction Session

  • 2*60 minutes one-on-one coaching session after 6 week and at the end

  • 11 weeks transformational weekly group sessions (Monday teaching,  plus Friday questions)

  • Lifetime access to all call recordings

  • Healing Mp3 to shift subconscious imprints and reset your Nervous system

  • A 45minutes follow-up call after 3 months


BONUS; Unapologetically YOU Community in

    telegram and Facebook.

It's magical to have a community to celebrate your breakthroughs with, be womanly, share our journey and find that what you secretly criticise yourself about is what every woman experiences,  you heal together and network

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"𝐼 𝑚𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑑 𝑝𝑎𝑠𝑡 𝑎 𝑑𝑦𝑠𝑓𝑢𝑛𝑐𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑎𝑙 𝑟𝑒𝑙𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝, 𝑐𝑜𝑛𝑛𝑒𝑐𝑡𝑒𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑚𝑦 𝑏𝑜𝑑𝑦 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑚𝑦 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑖𝑠 𝑜𝑝𝑒𝑛

𝐼 𝑤𝑎𝑠 𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑐𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡𝑒 𝑎 𝑐𝑖𝑣𝑖𝑙 𝑟𝑒𝑙𝑎𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛𝑠ℎ𝑖𝑝 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑚𝑦 𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑟𝑎𝑛𝑔𝑒𝑑 ℎ𝑢𝑠𝑏𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑑𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑑𝑓𝑢𝑙 𝑡ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔𝑠 ℎ𝑒 ℎ𝑎𝑑 𝑠𝑎𝑖𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑚𝑒 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑑𝑒𝑠𝑝𝑖𝑡𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑑𝑖𝑠𝑐𝑜𝑣𝑒𝑟𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑡ℎ𝑒 𝑒𝑥𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑜𝑓 ℎ𝑖𝑠 𝑑𝑖𝑠ℎ𝑜𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑡𝑦. 𝐼 𝑤𝑎𝑠 𝑎𝑏𝑙𝑒 𝑡𝑜 𝑎𝑐𝑐𝑒𝑠𝑠 𝑛𝑒𝑤 𝑝𝑜𝑤𝑒𝑟 𝑎𝑛𝑑 𝑖𝑛𝑠𝑖𝑔ℎ𝑡 𝑡ℎ𝑎𝑡 𝑎𝑠𝑠𝑖𝑠𝑡𝑒𝑑 𝑚𝑒 𝑖𝑛 𝑔𝑒𝑡𝑡𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑚𝑜𝑟𝑒 𝑒𝑛𝑔𝑎𝑔𝑒𝑚𝑒𝑛𝑡 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑝𝑒𝑜𝑝𝑙𝑒 𝑤𝑖𝑡ℎ 𝑟𝑒𝑔𝑎𝑟𝑑 𝑡𝑜 𝑚𝑦 𝑐𝑜𝑎𝑐ℎ𝑖𝑛𝑔 𝑏𝑢𝑠𝑖𝑛𝑒𝑠𝑠. 𝐼 𝑑𝑒𝑣𝑒𝑙𝑜𝑝𝑒𝑑 𝑎 𝑚𝑢𝑐ℎ 𝑔𝑟𝑒𝑎𝑡𝑒𝑟 𝑐𝑎𝑝𝑎𝑐𝑖𝑡𝑦 𝑡𝑜 𝑜𝑝𝑒𝑛 𝑚𝑦 ℎ𝑒𝑎𝑟𝑡 𝑎𝑛𝑑 ℎ𝑎𝑣𝑒 𝑚𝑦 𝑎𝑡𝑡𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑜𝑛 𝑖𝑛 𝑚𝑦 𝑏𝑜𝑑𝑦." - 𝐸.𝐺


Transcend and overcome the limitations, beliefs, patterns, and imprints that bind you in pain and suffering so that your Unapologetically YOU can emerge. Do not die with your music inside.

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Married with 2 Children

Yeah, before my session with u Gao, I had anger issues that I directed to anyone with authority over me and at men in general, I believed any man who dated me did me a favor as I felt unworthy of love, I cared more about how I felt about someone not about how they felt about me, I just thought of myself as trash.... After talking with you I sat down and told myself tht I am going to allow myself to feel love, thts when I realized who cared more about me, I told myself that I should come first and ever since, everything seemed to fall in place, I felt more in control of my life, I made decisions that changed my life and a year later I am happy, married and with 2 kids now.



I hear you ask, why don't you just tell me the price, why should I book a call?

I am glad you asked, it is an application-only process;

  • Because of the nature of my work, I prefer to have a consultation first, just like you would when you meet a lawyer or surgeon.


 No matter how much you want transformation you don't just go to a surgeon and lie on a table without knowing what the surgery is all about, right?

  •  Due to the deep transformational nature of this program, I need to know if you are committed, not what you say but your body has its say too

  • I  had consultations with people who just jumped on the call because their partner wanted them to do the work, and the moment I connect I knew they don't wanna be there, so if that's the case I spare you the time and energy of being forced to change, yet you rolling your eyes....maybe you haven't had transformation before because you were not ready or didn't want  and they didn't tell you 

  • Some of you might need help and you did all you could but here you are, probably you were not in the body, it's just like sending gifts to a house you don't occupy and claiming you didn't receive them, you are not available...due to different circumstances people choose not to be in their bodies to avoid pain...this is where I come in, so your call

  •  And we need to both make sure we are a great fit, do you wanna work with me, and I get to decide too.

  • I have to understand if you have a problem that I can help you solve and if you are really committed to being Unapologetically YOU or being disempowered. You can't be both 

No matter the outcome you gonna have a breakthrough, that I can guarantee you, so I wanna serve you whether you decide to work with me or not.

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Success Stories

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My Only Complaint is many Customers

For as long as I can remember I have always felt lost like I was just drifting in the wind with no direction no purpose,I had so many undealt issues, and unhealed emotional wounds dating back from my childhood. At some point it got so bad,I was so depressed and suicidal, and that's when I knew something had to give,I needed help. With her healing, everything began to change. I have been struggling with starting my cake business, but I can proudly say my business is doing amazingly my only complaint is having so many customers🥰🥰🤣.

My healing with her has worked miracles for me and I will always be grateful to her and her teachings as she has shown me a better way of living and to fully live and not just exist.I am well on my way to becoming the authentic and unapologetic ME.

Thank you so much Miss Motsemme


Open to new Possibilities

Wow, What an amazing session. When I first came to Gao, I was having issues with my eyes that she was unaware of. During the session, she quickly tuned into my eyes and I am happy to report the burning and blurriness of my eyes has improved and I can see clearly now. Its almost like not only did she help my physical ailment with my eyes, but now I can see more clearly in my future. She opened up the doors of so many possibilities for me in the future and brought me back fully into my body so I can experience the power within me even more. I am soo excited to see what else unfolds. I would highly recommend a session with Gao not only for any physical issues in your body but to bring you fully back into your body and your power center in your wound to increase your manifesting power. She is such an attentive and gentle yet powerful healer.


-De, Washington, DC

The End

She helped me with connecting to the Higherpower and becoming whom I AM meant to become.

I believe in being authentic and as a religious person, I got to a point where I felt limited because of my religion.....I lost my mom in 2017 and that has been traumatic....and made me question a lot about life. I resonated with her knowledge, but I couldn't even express that to anyone. My religion has been a source of strength throughout my life and has served its purpose I believe. I needed my eyes to be opened more and talking to Gao made me realize I'm not crazy to want more. She helped me realize there's more to it, especially with connecting to the Higher power and becoming whom I AM meant to become. I have more clarity about my life, the positive energy is intense. It is a journey, though scary sometimes, but I am more excited to explore the depth of this eternal life. I know we connected for a reason. The perfect timing of it all. I truly needed to overcome a lot of stumbling blocks in my life. I know we all recognize truth when we hear it and all she speaks is truth. I pray that she is given the strength to share this true gift.


Seriously, don't scroll any further, there is nothing to see, hear, or read that you haven't read already.

The question is what is your" The end"?

You can rewrite your story and change how your experience life and how your soul expresses itself through you.

BE Unapologetically YOU

Still Have Questions ?


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